A Study in Passive-Aggressive Personal Vindication

The football book is curiously dull, yet oddly compelling. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently names a hit play, an upcoming TV show, and a national address authored by the manager in 2021.

This version of Dear England is not formally tied to any of those. It exists as an peculiar entry in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about leadership: a typically uninspiring elite football manager trope that Southgate sticks to persistently, using the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” no fewer than 500 times across its 336-page length.

Questions Posed

“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” the author questions in the opening, establishing his argument, but stopping short to explore “Why are leaders?”, questions likely reserved for a follow-up publication.

Additionally, this book features a notable absence in the middle. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile personal vindication, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the real point, skipping nimbly from unsettled score to raw emotion across a series of graphs, business clichés and digressions about historical figures.

Engagement

Engaging with the text is like listening to your family members having a mannered but deeply felt disagreement in the nearby area while you’re attempting to concentrate on a professional workshop called “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also impossible to stop reading, as the author keeps drifting near to an issue you actually want to learn about, before unexpectedly changing tack.

Revelations

The book contains typically controversial revelations in works of this nature, explained by the intense fascination with the role of England manager. The most striking instances encompass: he decided he was certainly going to step down as England manager after spectators hurled containers at him at the tournament; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his squad members were racially abused; he introduced the concept of set-piece coaches and the entire league in the top division is now following his lead; he has now misplaced his enthusiasm for soccer, a startling revelation thrown away in a short passage at the final part.

Guiding England through a time of fury, hope, upheaval and confinement was a brutal journey. The scars are obviously still raw.

Commonplace Material

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is saturated with an computer-generated word-sludge of generic management talk. Review editions of this book were shared with reviewers under confidentiality clauses before release, likely out of apprehension someone might reveal that “difficult conversations can, by their very essence, be difficult”, that you should always look before you leap, that management takes place where evolution intersects with empathy.

Sincere Expression

Readers will find however genuine emotion here. Leading England through a time of fury, optimism, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a grueling journey. The scars are evidently still unhealed, albeit presented in a buzzword-filled reinterpretation of the classic coach theme: how my decisions were correct about everything all along.

Detailed Instances

The book’s opening passage, Trojan-horsed as gripping accounts of the deciding game of Euro 2024, is entirely focused on how successful the manager actually was at substitutes (the major common complaint revolving around he was not effective at making changes). Further on, he goes into significant detail about how he managed the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – specifically the losing tiebreaker – because he complied with a predetermined process, which implies that throwing on youthful talents in the closing stages to take the biggest attempt of their careers was logical and accurate.

That approach was validated by a winning shootout against Switzerland in a subsequent competition after a game where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to put on a jumper the wrong way round. “The control we exerted in that shootout was simply exhilarating,” the author writes, while likening the performance to elite military units killing Osama bin Laden. Goodness.

Withheld Details

On the occasions we come near to a revelation, Southgate backs away from identifying individuals or giving us the juice. We learn there were difficult England individuals who required more focus, maybe because they were pampered early in their time in football. But as you anticipate expectantly, the author is already veering off into a topic titled The Culture Code, which claims that as opposed to a collection of qualities or principles, team environment is in fact something that is formed by, unfortunately, stop, we’ve heard enough.

Notable Sections

Among the better parts are when the author writes about the gradual process of building mental toughness in youth, or how he attempted to describe Englishness more clearly and more positively than anyone else in the limelight. The standout section, there is a genuinely absorbing narrative of that distressing match in Sofia where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and afterwards defended robustly by their coach).

Genuine Ending

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